Monday, 26 May 2014

If you want to fly and move on to better things, you have to give up the things that weigh you down – which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.
Starting today, give up.

Letting the opinions of others control your life
People know your name, not your story.  They’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through.  So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt.  In the end, it’s not what others think, it’s what you think about yourself that counts.  Sometimes you have to do exactly what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else.

The shame of past failuresYou will fail sometimes, and that’s okay.  The faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with being brilliant.  Your past does not equal your future.  Just because you failed yesterday; or all day today; or a moment ago; or for the last six months; or for the last sixteen years, doesn’t have any impact on the current moment.  All that matters is what you do right now.  

Being indecisive about what you want
 You will never leave where you are until you decide where you would rather be.  It’s all about finding and pursuing your passion.  Neglecting passion blocks creative flow.  When you’re passionate, you’re energized.  Likewise, when you lack passion, your energy is low and unproductive.  Energy is everything when it comes to being successful.  Make a decision to figure out what you want, and then pursue it passionately.

Procrastinating on the goals that matter to you
 There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.  Follow your intuition.  Don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do.  When there is love and inspiration, you can’t go wrong.  And whatever it is you want to do, do it now.  There are only so many tomorrows.  Trust me, in a year from now, you will wish you had started today.

Choosing to do nothing
 You don’t get to choose how you are going to die, or when.  You can only decide how you are going to live, right now.  Every day is a new chance to choose.  Choose to change your perspective.  Choose to flip the switch in your mind from negative to positive.  Choose to turn on the light and stop fretting about with insecurity and doubt.  Choose to do work that you are proud of.  Choose to see the best in others, and to show your best to others.  Choose to truly LIVE, right now

Your need to be right
 If you keep on saying you’re right, even if you are right now, eventually you will be wrong.  Aim for success, but never give up your right to be wrong.  Because when you do, you will also lose your ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. 

Running from problems that should be fixed
 We make lifeharder than it has to be.  The difficulties started when… conversations became texting, feelings became subliminal, sex became a game, the word ‘love’ fell out of context, trust faded as honesty waned, insecurities became a way of living, jealously became a habit, being hurt started to feel natural, and running away from it all became our solution.  Stop running!  Face these issues, fix the problems, communicate, appreciate, forgive and LOVE the people in your life who deserve it.

Making excuses rather than decisions
 Life is a continuous exercise in creative problem solving.  A mistake doesn’t become a failure until you refuse to correct it. Thus, most long-term failures are the outcome of people who make excuses instead of decisions.

Overlooking the positive points in your life
 What you see often depends entirely on what you’re looking for.  Do your best and surrender the rest.  When you stay stuck in regret of the life you think you should have had, you end up missing the beauty of what you do have.  You will have a hard time ever being happy if you aren’t thankful for the good things in your life right now. 

Not appreciating the present moment
 We do not remember days, we remember moments.  Too often we try to accomplish something big without realizing that the greatest part of life is made up of the little things.  Live authentically and cherish each precious moment of your journey.  Because when you finally arrive at your desired destination, I guarantee you, another journey will begin.

Teringat time kat kelas PK PLKN.. selalu gaduh kecil-kecilan dgn Cikgu Arni and Cikgu Fidza... 

Nis : cikgu ! saya tak setuju
Cikgu Arni : apa?
Nis : konsep 'what u give, u get back '. duk bagi je kat orang, orang tak 'bagi' pun kat saya. cmna tu?
Cikgu Arni : ikhlaskan diri anda. 

Nis : cikgu, sikit pun 'saya tidak peduli' dgn konsep percaya.
Cikgu Fidza : why?
Nis : coz it's too HARD for me to believe anyone.
Cikgu Fidza : Adakah mereka percayakan hanis?
Nis : emm.. ramai rasanya. 
Cikgu Fidza : kamu bertindak kejam
Nis : tapi kenapa?
Cikgu Fidza : apa maksud 'adil' ?
Nis : meletakkan sesuatu di tempat yang betul iaitu... ya.. tidak menzalimi hak orang lain. but I JUST CANT. 
Cikgu Fidza : kepercayaan juga hak orang lain, hanis. you should try. please try.

TKL ( Timbalan Komandan Latihan ) : kamu TAKUT dengan bayangan DIRI SENDIRI. Saya CABAR, lompat Charlie O43 !!  

 * cikgu, saya still tak berjaya amalkan dua konsep ni. haha, jom gaduh lagi??.. rindu cikgu :)
Tuan, saya masih fobia pada ketinggian. sbb takda yg akan sambut kalau saya jatuh. hahaha *
 just refleksi , chilling myself 
Malam2 cmni, terasa rindu life di PLKN. kalau boleh, nis nak stay lebih lama lagi dengan cikgu2 dan kawan2 kat situ. ^_^ maybe bagi kebanyakan wira dan wirawati, modul pekerti, modul pembinaan karakter dan sebagainya tu membosankan. tapi percayalah, modul-modul tu semua tersangat-sangatlah bermakna dalam hidup nis. Di PLKN, nis berjaya cari di mana kekuatan sebenar diri nis.

Seriously talk, 'hanis' yang ampa kenai ni dulunya, masa kat sekolah menengah, dia seorang yang sangat-sangat rendah diri. I mean, rendah diri yang melampau. Sometimes nis rasa cam lebih baik mati ja dari hidup dalam keadaan macam tu. Betapa teruk dan rendahnya self-esteem nis sehinggakan semua orang HEBAT di mata nis, yes, nis x pernah nampak kelebihan diri sendiri, takda keyakinan langsung dengan diri sendiri.. and selalu hipokrit.

hm, result nis makin lama makin merosot, bukan sebab nis bodoh, bukan sebab nis malas study tapi sebab nis berkonflik dengan diri sendiri. sekolah pun selalu MC. Kalau di sekolah rendah, nis bukannya jenis pelajar yang pasif begitu, cikgu2 kenal nis, nis akan sentiasa tingkatkan prestasi dalam pelajaran dan nis akan bersungguh-sungguh dalam semua bidang yang nis ceburi. Alhamdulillah.. 

... but then, ada something yang jadi pada nis time 2009, and my life totally change 360 degree. 5 tahun mencari diri, and now I was able to improve my life successfully. hmm, makna 'bahagia' , makna 'berjaya' tu berbeza bagi kita semua. Berkat PLKN, nis berjaya temui sesuatu dan nis happy dengan life nis skrg ni. rasa bertuah sangat dapat masuk PLKN. :) 

terima kasih kawan-kawan KEM PLKN BUKIT BESAR.. terima kasih cikgu-cikgu.. terima kasih TKL.. terima kasih komandan.. terima kasih staf-staf kem, jasa kalian.. akan ku kenang selalu. wslm.   * Im not perfect but I'll always try to do my best *